04. Presence
creative self-care
Exploring mindfulness + the benefits of acknowledging your physical space and the presence you hold within it.
Our body is our first home, our physical home is the second one.
To be present in your home, noticing the patterns, textures, and colors, is to be present within yourself. The objects and symbols that you surround yourself with have been chosen from a deeper part of your truth; perhaps they conjure nostalgia, or dreams, or are a representation of who you believe yourself to truly be. Our home is a mirror to our selves and can be a bridge for higher living, revealing harmony and balance.
Consider your home a healing energy, and take stock of the subtleties that you surround yourself with daily.
prompt
We live within this reality we create, and we're quite unaware of how we create the reality.
⎯ JAMES TURRELL
morning ritual
Before reaching for your phone or checking emails, take a few moments to be mindful. Notice your breath and acknowledge the rise and fall of your belly as you inhale/exhale deeply. Bring your awareness to the environment around you.
— Look for FIVE things you can see
examples: the woodgrain of your floors, the pattern on the blanket in front of you.
— Feel FOUR things you can touch
examples: your shirt against your neck, the grain of your fingerprints when rubbed together.
— Listen to THREE things you can hear
examples: birds chirping outside your window, the hum of the furnace.
— Notice TWO things you can smell
examples: the herbs in your tea, your own skin, the subtle scent of the air in your room.
— Acknowledge ONE thing you can taste
examples: your toothpaste, the lingering tannins of coffee, the chapstick from your lips.
monthly therapeutic activity
During this busy time of year, block out at least one hour this month to engage in the therapeutic activity below. It is a mindfulness exercise that has proven to reduce stress, lower anxiety, and have grounding benefits. Giving yourself the space for simple creative expression may result in surprising effects. Fresh ideas, solutions to nagging quandaries, or feelings of peace or freedom have been known to arise.
Materials: Sketchbook + your favorite drawing material (ex: micron, graphite pencil, ballpoint or gel pen)
Set your space: Loop the playlist above, light a candle, take four or five slow, deep, cleansing breaths.
Open your sketchbook to a blank page.
Slowly observe the room around you. Notice the objects in your surroundings, then the textures and patterns, and finally the overall feel of your environment.
Close your eyes and absorb the energy of the space.
Open your eyes and take stock of the symbols, motifs, textures, and patterns in your room by sketching them in your book. These could be laid down in list form or compiled loosely on the page. Don’t pay attention to order or accuracy. Think of them as doodles and try to release judgement and precision.
On the facing page of your sketchbook, create a composition that includes some of the motifs from above and more importantly, conveys the feeling of the space around you. Draw what you feel, not necessarily what you see. Now is the time to be more methodical with your approach. Play with repetition, line weight, and balance.
When you come to a stopping point, notice your approach to your composition. Did you try to recreate the scene exactly as it looks? or is your design more abstract?
Take a few moments to observe your drawing within your surroundings and next to your drawing, jot down any thoughts or feelings that came up during this process.
Acknowledge the mood you captured in your drawing. Is it peaceful? Cluttered? Comforting? Empty? How does it mirror the mood of your room?
Discover a new presence within your home ⎯
LEARN:
spiritual home design
READ:
WABI-SABI, FINDING BEAUTY IN IMPERFECTION
LISTEN:
THE PRESENCE PLAYLIST
Example of this month’s Therapeutic Activity.
Laina Miller is an artist and Social Emotional Arts Instructor. All viewpoints, activities, and insights expressed were generated from personal and professional experience and bolstered by favorite readings, teachers, and mentors. The aforementioned have been cited wherever possible. For additional support, please reach out to a trusted mental health advisor.
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